Submission

He was always told that it was not in the beating of a woman that made her subservient; it was in the manipulation. Manipulation came in many forms, one just had to know which made a particular woman bend over backwards for you. He had chosen love- affirmation might be a better word- as his strategy.

And it worked. 

Christian

Dear Judgemental Freaks who don't think they're judgemental freaks just because they are 'open minded',

Christianity does not make me perfect. It is not some magic wand that instantly transforms me into the 'ideal Christian' you hear I should be.

It is patience. God holding my hand, gradually steering and moulding me into what He wants me to be.

I will make my fair share of mistakes. Please do not judge God by my flaws. He is everything but imperfect and evil.

God is neither male nor female. He is a being. God is good. He is Love. He is so much more than we can fathom.

I wish we could focus on this God.

PS I am sorry for calling you a judgemental freak. I feel bad about it now.

Yes, I will say it over and over again before I agree with anything you say. Or admit to your being right. Because, like you have said may times before, I have commitment issues. Answering in the affirmative is committing to doing as asked and saying whatever is needed and being whatever is demanded. It might also be losing to you.

It is also opening up. It is in a sense vulnerability.